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Disagree and Commit
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Voice your disagreement, then fully commit to the decision.
How It Works
- A decision needs to be made.
- Everyone shares their perspective honestly, including disagreements.
- A decision is made (by whoever has authority).
- Even those who disagreed commit fully to executing it.
Why It's Powerful
- Prevents endless debates from blocking progress.
- Respects dissent without letting it paralyse the team.
- Builds trust: people know they'll be heard even if the decision goes the other way.
- Creates real alignment, not just compliance.
The Rules
- Disagree openly, not behind closed doors after the meeting.
- Once committed, don't sabotage or say "I told you so" if it fails.
- The decision maker must genuinely listen before deciding.
- It's not "shut up and comply." The disagreement is valued.
When It Doesn't Work
When trust is low or when people feel their disagreement is just a formality. It only works if dissent is genuinely welcome.
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